Adjective
Henpecked
Particularly of husbands, plagued or overwhelmed by a nagging or overbearing wife.
See also
-pussy whipped
-under the thumb
-to wear the pants
Boy am I glad that my relationship is a healthy and balanced one unlike those who have henpecked gfs or wives.
I admit though that I do nag at my boyfriend. Most of the time, it's either to shower before bed, to wash his hands with Detol after meals (yes I am a clean freak if you're wondering) and whenever I'm in the car, I repeat the words "Dear, drive safely!" like a billion gazillion times. But that's pretty much it.
I'm not the kind of girl who gets mad at him for hanging out with his buddies till the wee hours of the night nor am I the type of girl that would give he and his girl friends/colleagues the weird eye when I'm having dinner or drinks with them. This is because I really trust him or in other words, I haven't seen him done anything that would make me break my trust in him.
Being the easily-jealous type of girlfriend that I am, I believe that it's healthy for my guys to have girl friends and vice-versa too. Certain problems with the gf, you just can't share with your guy buddies or Mom, so that's when I think a girl friend comes in handy, to advice and care, same with if a gf were to have a really close guy friend.
From my experience, I am more than happy when my close guy friends and boyfriend can hold a conversation about the same hobbies or likings. Of course enough said, the most important thing is both parties should know when and how to draw the line, then no henpecked husbands or wives would ever feel the need to hire a Private Investigator or feel the need to skin anyone alive :)
HAHA, Okay I'm merely just being a bored teenager cooped up in the four walls of my bedroom and spending a very lonely weekend by myself. Darling Keong is away with his friends on a fishing trip at Kelong, Malaysia and won't be back till tomorrow evening.
I really hate it when I make plans and they get canceled at the very last minute! I'm suppose to be checked-in at the Hard Rock Hotel in RWS (resort world singapore) this weekend and right about now, I've pictured myself sipping on some cocktail or just beer, with MTV playing in my hotel room, while I occasionally take a smoke and enjoy the view from my room. BUT Guess what?! I'M NOT!! Damn those shit-ass VIPs who paid $300 for a night and was given more priority, thus it's called stealing my room with bribery!! Hmph! Amazing what money can do in Singapore right. So yes as a result..., I am alone this weekend. Although I did manage to get out a bit last night.
It was grandpa's 84th birthday dinner over at my cousin Ben's place. Because as years go by, he gets older and doesn't wanna go out for birthday dinner anymore. So we take away food and have family dinner at home instead. It's the year of the tiger again, in deed another 12 years has passed and my grandfather is still as strong as he once was.
Happy Birthday Kong Kong!
The ever so loving couple, my grandma and grandpa. I wish that my marriage would last as long as 60 years down the road and my grand kids would be taking pictures of my husband and I during my 84th birthday too.
After dinner, Jovene and I met up with a few colleagues for Seesha at Marrakesh, Clarke Quay. Brought me back to memory lane 2007. So anyway, from left to right, that's Reuben and his gf, Mei En, then on the far right you have Glen and his gf Joanna. And right smacked in the middle would be Jovene and I, yes so that would make Jovene my date for the evening.
It was yet another LADIES NIGHT for the girls at OC! We met up pretty early, took a tour around Shanghai Dolly and decided to club hop that night instead. It was a group decision, but I guess we'll be seeing Shanghai Dolly soon for a more chillax occasion. We entered The Arena first, it was the only club that had the free flow starting at 10pm.
Then we jumped over to Zirca. This picture is hilarious lar!! The up-size Whisky dry that Sabrina and I didn't favor too much. But on the picture to my right, Jovene is thinking "You girls are pussys, bottoms Up baby!"
After much drinking, it was off to Rebel for some ass shaking. It was damn crowded!! And it reminded me of MOS. I'm talking about the cage concept and all. Music was slightly better with a bit of R&B, Zirca was more of Retro and Trance remixes. ALTHOUGH it was a major swear fest and a total smoke-machine pollution up in there! After like 20 minutes of dancing, we hopped over back to Arena.
Hey check out my Darling Jovene's center park-ing hair on the picture on the left! LOL!!!
My two favorite pictures of the night would be these two, the two groupies :)
At Zirca & at Arena
PICTURE OF THE NIGHT:
Joanna tryna pull a quick one on me! But luckily my hands were fast enough! HAHA. We were groping each others breasts the entire night comparing who had biggest breat and yes, we caught her on camera groping mine. Look at her expression man. . .
Boyfriend mentioned this sometime during the week, "You really know how to enjoy yourself huh..." Haha! He didn't say it in an angry manner, he says it's good that I'm putting aside time to spend with my friends/colleagues, and it's been something he hasn't done in a long time. I guess it's time he should get an organizer too, so apart from work he'll have a more exciting social life. My boyfriend has small groupies of frenzies that he hasn't kept in touch with for a LONG time. So I go, "Don't wait till it's our wedding day then you suddenly invite them you know." LOL. Hence I think despite for the fact that I've been missing him for the past 24 hours, it's great that he's on his fishing trip with his buddies now! :D
It was yet another LADIES NIGHT for the girls at OC! We met up pretty early, took a tour around Shanghai Dolly and decided to club hop that night instead. It was a group decision, but I guess we'll be seeing Shanghai Dolly soon for a more chillax occasion. We entered The Arena first, it was the only club that had the free flow starting at 10pm.
After much drinking, it was off to Rebel for some ass shaking. It was damn crowded!! And it reminded me of MOS. I'm talking about the cage concept and all. Music was slightly better with a bit of R&B, Zirca was more of Retro and Trance remixes. ALTHOUGH it was a major swear fest and a total smoke-machine pollution up in there! After like 20 minutes of dancing, we hopped over back to Arena.
Hey check out my Darling Jovene's center park-ing hair on the picture on the left! LOL!!!
My two favorite pictures of the night would be these two, the two groupies :)
At Zirca & at Arena
PICTURE OF THE NIGHT:
Joanna tryna pull a quick one on me! But luckily my hands were fast enough! HAHA. We were groping each others breasts the entire night comparing who had biggest breat and yes, we caught her on camera groping mine. Look at her expression man. . .
Alright well, I think I'm gonna be spending the rest of Saturday stoning. Maybe watch a movie on TV or continue reading The Time Traveler's Wife (i've stopped for like a month already. shit), and have more of Dad's delicious goulash!
Why don't they have freaking reception in the Kampong and Kelong areas of Malaysia????
Why don't they have freaking reception in the Kampong and Kelong areas of Malaysia????
